What is a SugarDaddy

A SugarDaddy is usually a wealthy, older person who gives expensive gifts to someone much younger in return for companionship and intimacy. Years ago in Hollywood you may see a young starlet in the company of an older wealthy producer or writer. In many countries younger men and women seek the wisdom and security of a mature partner. People are drawn to wealth and power successful people tend to have a lot of positive energy around them. The term Sugar Daddy describes the sweet gift that they provide and their station in life. Today many mature wealthy people are just looking for a fun and companionship. Many successful people have worked very hard to achieve a high standard of living may not be interested in a traditional relationship. Sugar Daddy dating allows them the ability to have all the benefits of a normal dating relationship without the drama and commitment of a traditional relationship.

XXX Tools

The days of women dominating in the adult toys department are long gone. Now, there's just as diverse a selection of sex toys for men as there are for women. If you haven't really considered sex toys for men before, then it's probably about time you do so. You will find life so much more enjoyable when you have the right "tools" for the job.

Now, if you're not sure what you should be buying and feel uncomfortable about visiting an adult shop to see the range of products in the flesh, we will look at a few of the best options. You can then simply shop online for everything you need.

Cock Rings

While cock rings might seem to be more for your partner than for you, that is not quite true. First of all, when you slip it on, you can turn the vibrator so that it is snug against your balls and enjoy the added stimulation while you have sex or masturbate. Additionally, the longer you maintain your erection, the harder you will come and the happier you will make your partner. Who knows? If you play your cards right she might be so happy that she'll give you a blow job.

Masturbating Sleeves

You have used your hand so many times to masturbate that the touch of a masturbating sleeve will have your penis thinking it's Christmas. The sensations you can enjoy with a masturbating sleeve far surpass anything your hand can achieve. With textured interiors and just enough pressure to make it feel indescribably, you will regret you waited so long to get your very own masturbating sleeve. Whether you like to go in the front or through the backdoor, there's the perfect sleeve for you, from vagina to mouth replicas and everything else in between, including combination sleeves.

Vibrating Masturbator

If you really want to take your sexual gratification to a new level, then the only way to do it is with a vibrating masturbator. Make of silicone and similar materials that imitate skin, shaped either as a vagina, mouth or anus, there's nothing quite like the sensation of having your cock vibrated to orgasm.

Robotic Mouth

Of course the 21st century has also hit sex toys which is why the Robotic Mouth makes this list as a top choice because, after all, how often do you get a blow job without complaint? Never? Thought so. Now, just take out your Robotic Mouth and sit back and enjoy. No gagging, no complaining, no orders, just simple and pure fun as this amazing sex toy brings you to a spectacular climax.

Xtreme Optimum Power - Rotating Turbo Stroker

This sex toy should be the flagship of your collection. Consider it a bullet, vibrator and dildo rolled into one, if it were for a woman. The Rotating Turbo Stroker features an amazing masturbation sleeve with beads twirling around it. The power can be adjusted and the sensations are out of this world. For the best experience, there's only one way to go and that's Xtreme.

Dating and Dollars

The date had gone well, Jane thought, munching the crust of the last piece of pizza.

Now it was time to pay. Jane had asked Michael out, so she decided she'd just pay for their dinner. She took out her wallet to pay the check and her date tossed her two dollars, to pay for his share -- he'd only eaten one piece of pizza because he wasn't too hungry.

Jane was mortified; she'd offered to pay, so why couldn't he just let her do it? Or if he wanted to split the check, why couldn't he split it evenly? The ugly green monster -- money -- had ruined a perfectly pleasant date.

Who Treats

Even if you don't consider yourself likely to discuss high finance during the early stages of a relationship, money will probably come up. Even as early as the first date, you've got to decide who pays for dinner, coffee, the movie -- even for valet parking.

Etiquette aside, it's bound to get awkward when you both reach for your wallets or, worse, begin arguing about who should pay.

There's always the issue of whether the person who asks is the one who should pay. That's a useful rule of thumb, but it doesn't always apply. Some guys have been trained since birth to pull out their wallets when the check arrives, while others feel as if they've scored when their dates offer to pay.

Since most of us work, there's no reason to assume our dates will do the paying, especially since we're perfectly capable of doing it ourselves. Besides, there's another benefit to sharing the costs: If you go out six times and decide it's over, you won't feel bad because the guy's spent his life's savings buying you dinner.

21. If you're striving for parity in a dating situation where the guy insists on paying, think of other tactics. For example, the next time you make plans to go out on a date, ask whether he'd be interested in seeing a play, an art exhibit, or a movie -- and tell him you'll pick up the tickets. That way he won't feel as if he has to pay for everything, but he also won't get stuck under the accusatory gaze of some antiquated waiter in a restaurant when you pick up the check.

Power Play

Once you've gotten the "who pays" issue resolved, you'll no doubt move on to bigger financial issues. You may find yourselves trying to mesh different styles and philosophies. You may have a personal policy that you never discuss how much you spend on anything or how much you've invested. He may ask you flat-out on the second date how much you pay for rent or what stocks you own.

Jennifer, a stockbroker in New York, went on a date with a new guy who not-so-subtly told her he was wearing an Armani suit and Ferragamo shoes. He tried so hard to let her know he was just as successful as she was that Jennifer was repelled: "He was probably a nice guy, but he was so concerned about showing me how much he spent on things that it was a total turn-off."

Money issues are often about boundaries and power, says psychologist Phyllis Goldberg. Talking about your investments or dropping hints about how much money you make or what you can afford to buy sends a signal to the person you're dating. It may convey more about you -- or him -- than you're really ready to learn at an early stage, so Goldberg suggests keeping money out of your conversations when you're just beginning to date.

The bottom line is that love and money can coexist quite nicely as long as you make the relationship take priority over who has the fatter wallet or who picks up the tab.

Creative Date Ideas

If you want to inject a little romance or spontaneity into a date, without breaking the bank, try following some of these ideas. You might just surprise yourself – and your partner!
1. Hike to the top of a mountain for a picnic.
2. Take a rowboat out on a lake at sunset.
3. Go up to the top of a building in a large city and take in the view.
4. Dress for a formal party, and then walk down the streets singing love songs.
5. Find a dark, romantic bistro with great coffees and desserts, or an independent book store that encourages browsing.
6. Find a rarely-used corner deep in the stacks of your library. Blow the dust off some musty old volume and read it aloud together. Steal a few hot kisses.
7. Pretend you've just won the lottery. "Shop" for your dream furnishings in elegant craft galleries, jewellery stores, and similar shops.
8. Test drive a sports car together.
9. Visit a specialty food factory such as a chocolate factory.
10. Browse a ritzy museum, gift shop or art gallery.
11. Drive along the outer borders of your city or county, exploring new neighbourhoods and villages where you've never been.
12. Ride a city's entire public rail transit system, going out on remote branch lines, just for the heck of it.
13. Spend the whole evening dressed and acting as characters from a play, movie, or book that you both enjoyed.
14. Speak only gibberish and let your thoughts be understood from your emotions, gestures, and tone.
15. Explore a wild and scenic place you've always wanted to check out.
16. Walk around celebrity neighbourhoods, looking for glimpses of the rich and famous.
17. Do something completely out of character--something you ordinarily wouldn't be caught dead even thinking about.
18. Go explore a local flea market one Saturday.
19. Get a guide book for your city. See you area through the eyes of tourists. You will be amazed at all the attractions that are hidden nearby.
20. Star gazing - Get a book on constellations and watch the stars. This can be especially fun during a meteor shower.
Ideas for Girls:
1. Go rollerblading. If you know how to rollerblade and he doesn't, teach him. If he knows and you don't, let him teach you. This date is great for breaking the ice because both of you will embarrass yourselves so much that you won't help but be able to laugh. Your true personalities will show.
2. Go for a walk, maybe some coffee after. It seems simple enough, but you'd be surprised about what you'd find out about someone if you'd just give them a chance to tell you. Besides, there's nothing like the ambiance of a great, romantic cafe to get you in the mood.
Ideas for Guys:
1. There's nothing like a good picnic. You can't argue with a classic.
2. Go to see the planes take off. This may be a little difficult, but sometimes there are little nooks and crannies by the highways and roads off of the runways. You can lie down on top of the hood of the car or lay a blanket on the ground and watch as the planes fly right over your head.
3. Plan a romantic evening with chocolate covered strawberries and slow music. Find some of her favourite songs and compile them onto one cassette and play them while you feed her strawberries.
Seasonal Ideas:
Winter Ideas
1. Make a lunch or dinner of hot soup and rolls together and set the table with candles. Play your favourite music.
2. Have an indoor picnic -- lay out a blanket and bring a picnic basket -- just have it on your living room floor!
3. Build a fire and roast marshmallows. If you don't have a fireplace, build a small safe campfire outside. Be sure to put it out completely when you're done and before leaving the area.
4. Build a snow fort together.
5. Surprise your date with "Summer in a Bag!" Get creative: Gather together 2 pairs of sunglasses, coconut suntan oil (for the smell of summer), Put on a Beach Boys CD, blow up a beach ball to toss and pretend it's hot out. It's silly, but it can take the edge out of the winter blues.
6. Make a snowman and snowwoman.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Make angels in the snow.
9. Bundle up and go someplace to watch the sun set over a silhouette of bare trees. As the sun goes down, watch them appear black and strikingly beautiful against the sky.
10. Go to a cappuccino bar, drink decaf and get to know one another.
11. Go sleigh riding.
12. Go for a walk in the snow and catch snow flakes on your tongue.
13. End a winter walk with hot chocolate and mini marshmallows.
14. Go to an arcade.
15. Rent a movie and pop some corn.
16. Rent and watch the video "It's a Wonderful Life!"
17. Assemble a really challenging puzzle.
18. Play board games.
19. Take a night-time walk to look at your neighbours holiday decorations and lights.
20. Go skiing -- downhill or cross-country.
Spring Ideas
1. Go wild-flower hunting. Pick your date a bouquet of wild-flowers. Put some in his/her hair.
2. Go for a walk in the park together.
3. Plant a window garden together.
4. Skip stones on a lake.
5. Have a picnic.
6. Go horseback riding.
7. Go on a hike.
8. Hire a professional guide and go rock climbing.
9. Go on a hot air balloon ride.
10. Go to the zoo to see the new baby animals that were born this spring.
11. Go for a walk in the rain (an umbrella is optional) and sing "Singing in the Rain!" really loudly.
12. Rent a bicycle built for two.
13. Go to a comedy club.
14. Look in your local paper for free or inexpensive concerts, shows and fairs.
15. Go to a park and play on the swings.
16. Play tennis.
Summer Ideas
1. Go to the top of a very tall building to watch the sun go down.
2. Jump through sprinklers together.
3. Go star gazing. Name a star for your date.
4. Lie on the grass and watch clouds. Use your imagination and talk about what you see in the clouds.
5. Go to an amusement park, go on scary rides and eat cotton candy.
6. Go rafting or canoeing or tubing (using a truck inner tube).
7. Walk on the beach. Bury each other in the sand.
8. Visit a boardwalk or carnival and play games.
9. Get up really early and meet to watch the sun rise -- then go for breakfast at a diner.
10. Run in a 5 K race together.
11. Do a walk-a-thon (for some cause you care about) together.
12. Go fishing.
13. Write a message and tie it to a balloon (or send it off in a bottle). Ask whoever finds it to mail you the message and tell you where they found it.
14. Get a group together and go camping.
15. Make home made ice-cream!
16. Watch a Little League game and cheer like you're watching the pros.
Fall Ideas
1. Decorate the house for Halloween or Thanksgiving.
2. Carve pumpkins.
3. Go apple picking and make an apple pie with the apples.
4. Go in-line skating.
5. Make a scarecrow together.
6. Go bike riding.
7. Get a big old barrel, water, and apples and invite a group of friends to dunk for apples. Have a camera available. There will be great shots!
8. Go to a flea market. Find the silliest thing for sale.
9. Go to a historic site. Try to talk like people from that period of time.
10. Go to a football game and cheer for the underdog, or for your home team.

Millionaire Dating Tips: Secret of Making First Contact

Most people think that online dating is for shy people who have no social life offline. But hey, I think that lack of confidence also extends online too, and what's more it shows in cyber space just as it shows in the real world. Can't muster enough courage to talk to someone you like? Well, some people find it just as difficult to email someone they like too. Just because people don't see eye-to-eye or person-to-person does not mean that communicating will come easier, right? And this goes the same for Millionaire Dating.

So, assuming that you already have an account with UK Millionaire Dating, then the next step is to find the love of your life out there, out from the thousands of prospects of wealthy singles. But don't be daunted, we have lots of special features and tools to help you in your search. Alright, these profile search tools filter out profiles that could be possible matches to yours. But this is the easy step, because the next one is much more difficult: making first contact.

Now it may sound like, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, but for some people out there, it can feel just like it. For a lot of people making contact online can be quite a daunting task, plus the fear of rejection makes it worse. But never fear! It may be daunting, but if you get it right, you may find the love that you are looking for. Alright, so you've finally seen a profile that interests you, but you're hesitant, plagued by a thousand "what-if's" and other what-not that so often troubles online daters when making the first contact.

Before you let the questions of "What if he/she doesn't like me?" or "What do I say?" bother you, calm down! There are a few simple things that you must keep in mind when you finally find someone who you think is your millionaire match and whom are interested enough to make contact with. Here are the first few, yet important tips when making the first encounter:

1. Who should contact who? First, you must figure out this one. Traditionally, women should wait for the men to approach them and make the first contact. But nowadays, that is not the case anymore. While in the traditional dating scene in the "real world," it still works that way, the same does not necessarily hold true in online dating. Because if a female online dater would just wait for someone to take interest in them, then she may be in for a long wait. Thus, the necessity of her making the first move. In fact, a survey showed that most men are not discouraged or turned-off by women who make the first move to get noticed or establish contact. In fact, guys, you should be flattered! And they seem to be. But that does not give the male online daters out there the reason to just sit on his laurels. You also need to get a move on too.

2. Now that is out of the way, we can move on. The next thing you need to do, is to read that person's profile in earnest. Now, when I say in earnest, I mean that you must not just look over his/her profile, but you must read it seriously. Take in the details, because believe me, this would come in handy later on. One of the most flattering thing that a person can do is to take in the even the smallest of details, like finding out the other person's hobbies, interests, and even ambitions. Looking at their favorites is also good, because then, you might find some that you share, and from there on, you might use that to become a first link. I'm sure that you've heard of the expression, "Birds of the same feather, flock together" well, there's a reason why those birds fly together: because they have something in common. So as much as you can, get very familiar with the person's profile, alright?

So the next thing that you need to do is to compose your first contact message. While that's not exactly an art or a science, it is however, worth thinking over. We will discuss that in the next article because it needs to be discussed in detail. So, until the next article then! Be sure to sign up at our Millionaire Dating site and follow the tips that were sent to you so far, and you're sure to be in for a fun and romantic experience! Visit our website today to start chatting to rich men and gorgeous singles.

Conversation Starters for First Dates

We have all been there, and we probably all agree – breaking the ice with a stranger is very hard. Okay maybe they're not a complete stranger – you're going out on a date, and you've probably chatted online a bit too. But seeing a person in the flesh for the first time complicates everything; it may be that the relaxed rapport you had has suddenly vanished.

What you need is a few secret weapons – the kind you only bring out in an emergency. Emergency being those moments of awkward silence and avoidance of eye contact, which strike many first dates at some point in the evening. "Well, the weather's being very good recently, hasn't it?" just doesn't cut the mustard, so here are a few conversation starters to keep those silences at bay.

Have you got any pets?

People love talking about their pets, so this is a sure-fire winner. Even if they haven't got any you can ask them why not – they might have an interesting story behind it. And if they do, you might discover a common interest

Are you into films/Have you seen … ?

This is good because most people watch films every now and again. Many people have a favourite, and if you haven't seen theirs it could lead to a cosy, romantic night in as a future date. Similarly…

Are you into music/Which artists do you like?

Again, many people like music, and those that do love talking about it. If you both happen to like the same band it can create an instant bond, but you have to be careful with this one – it could highlight differences between the two of you.

Have you ever … ?

Ask them about something you know a lot about or enjoy doing – you might have some common ground. Or, if they have never heard of your favourite past-time you could offer to show them what they're missing. But be careful not to brag about it; saying "I have done over thirty parachute jumps" does not impress people; it only makes you appear insecure. If they show no interest, move on quickly before you bore them.

Do you like sports?

Sports are very popular with both men and women and people can be very passionate about them, so this can be a great conversation starter. If you both enjoy the same sport you could think about getting tickets to the next big game together. And if you both support different teams all is not lost – use this as a flirting opportunity. People love a bit of gentle teasing, so remind them just how embarrassing it was when Beckham missed that penalty for Manchester United.

Have you ever been to … ?

If there's a local haunt of yours – a restaurant, club or park – ask them if they've been to the same place. If they haven't, this is even better: "Oh you don't know what you're missing, we should go there sometime!" But beware – it can be a bit creepy to be organising a 2nd date date this early, unless it's towards the end of the night and you're already getting on well.

Perhaps you have noticed, all of these reserve questions have one thing in common: they all contain the word "you". People love talking about themselves, so any question which encourages this will be welcome. It will show that you're interested in what they have to say, and do not just want to bore them with your own anecdotes.

The most important thing, however, is to relax. Try not to move conversation along too quickly or force your point of view. Let the conversation flow naturally and before long you will be talking like old friends.

How To Get A Second Date

According to scientists, men know whether or not a woman has long-term potential within a few minutes of meeting her. When I first heard that, I felt a lot of pressure to perform on first dates. But then I realised it’s not the woman who needs to come off well in that situation -- it’s the guy. After all, if you think she’s awesome, you need to make sure you can show her you’re awesome enough to go out with again. And while I can’t make you dress well, smell better, or work out more often, I can tell you how to behave on a first date so that you score a second date.

1. Ask Her Questions

Women enjoy talking -- studies have shown we tend to communicate verbally more often than dudes -- so ask her questions about where she grew up, what her job is like, what sorts of hobbies she has, and what her favourite My Little Pony was. Women often naturally take on the role of an interviewer on dates, so you needn’t worry about it becoming a one-sided conversation; she’ll still ask you about how you got that cool scar on your chin. And then you can tell her all about the time you faced down a lion with nothing but a whip on a circus train hurtling through the desert when you were a teenager.

2. Be Nice To Other People

We notice when you’re short with the waitress, or you only leave a measly $1 tip on a $50 bill… and then we assume you’re an undercover assh*le who’ll cheat on us with a stripper. Is that a little presumptuous? Yes. But this is how our minds work. Being needlessly rude to anyone on date No. 1 can easily sink your chances for date No. 2, so cover your bases and be nice and generous. (That’s good advice anytime, actually.)

3. Pick Up The Tab

I know that going Dutch makes sense --  she has a job just like you, you may not even know each other all that well -- but if you don’t at least make a sincere offer to pick up the tab, you very well may not get a second date. (Hey, we push for-kilogram mini humans out of our vaginas; the least you can do is pay for some chicken and a couple glasses of wine.) When the bill comes, reach for it immediately and slide it toward you. If she offers to split it, politely but adamantly decline -- or suavely suggest that she buy you an after-dinner drink instead. However, if she nearly has an aneurism insisting over and over again that you split it, just let her; no one wants to have a screaming match over who’s paying, and besides, there’s a good chance she’s so insistent because she knows she doesn’t want a second date.

4. Go In For A Kiss

Patti Stanger is the star of Millionaire Matchmaker, which I’m sure you already knew since you’re a huge fan of the show. Anyway, she has at least one piece of good advice: At the end of the night, if you don’t give your date a romantic smooch, you have severely increased your chances of landing in the dreaded friend zone. And guys in the friend zone don’t usually land date No. 2. I happen to think a vertical, fully-clothed make out sesh on someone’s couch is the way to go. But if your date isn’t as slutty as I am, go in for the kill after walking her to her car or front door.

5. Follow The Two-Day Rule

If you make contact the very next day, you risk coming off as too eager. But by the third day of radio silence, she starts to think she’s never going to hear from you again, and then she starts to justify why she’s, like, totally OK with that: the slight gap between your teeth, the fact that you’re a loud breather, the fact that you wore sneakers on the date. Before you know it, her friends are telling her she can do better than you. (I know it sounds crazy, but again, this is just the way it works.) So I highly recommend following the two-day rule; get in touch with her no more and no less than a couple days after your first date. What should you say? A simple “Thursday night was fun! Do you have plans next Friday?” will do just fine.

This article, by Chloe Anderson, was originally published on Modern Man.

Kurt Cobain

Hello ! Welcome to my blog ! 

My name's Zulkefli Yahaya...from Malaysia.

I am not intend to tell my story even though my background.

I am 31. Off course I was a teenager once.

As a teenager I have realized there is much to discuss over the great Kurt Cobain but people need to get lives. I know he was a wonderful songwriter but damn do you think he would like his fans trying to make sense of his songs when clearly he only wanted people to listen to his music for what it was.

Here is one of several Kurt Cobain song that I drive my self crazy...

My girl, my girl, don't lie to me,
Tell me where did you sleep last night.

In the pines, in the pines,
Where the sun don't ever shine.
I would shiver the whole night through.

My girl, my girl, where will you go?
I'm going where the cold wind blows.

In the pines, in the pines,
Where the sun don't ever shine.
I would shiver the whole night through

Her husband, was a hard working man,
Just about a mile from here.
His head was found in a driving wheel,
But his body never was found.

My girl, my girl, don't lie to me,
Tell me where did you sleep last night.

In the pines, in the pines,
Where the sun don't ever shine.
I would shiver the whole night through.

My girl, my girl, where will you go?
I'm going where the cold wind blows.

In the pines, in the pines,
Where the sun don't ever shine.
I would shiver the whole night through.

My girl, my girl, don't lie to me,
Tell me where did you sleep last night.

In the pines, in the pines,
Where the sun don't ever shine.
I would shiver the whole night through.

My girl, my girl, where will you go?
I'm going where the cold wind blows.

In the pines, …the pines,
……… sun,
……….shine.
I shiver the whole, night through!

This song always gives me chills, it's the perfect end to the unplugged album it just gets more and more intense...(P/s it's true the real author of this song is unknown, nobody knows who really wrote it it's an old folk song. Nirvana and the others only helped popularize it). 

Thank you for reading my first entry !