A growing percentage of women openly admit to
preferring the company of an older guy for date, rather than same age or
younger. The present day Sugar Daddy is a far cry from his 20th Century
counterpart, who would be more inclined to keep such a relationship
totally private, enjoying clandestine meetings at secretive venues.
Today, an older guy will display his younger partner openly, publicly
and with pride.
Recently, an investigation from the millionaire
singles dating site millionairecupid.com reveals more information. Why
sugar daddy dating is becoming more and more popular within the online
dating arena. The comparisons are based on age difference relationships
with long term in mind.
1) Generally speaking, a female will feel safer in
the company of a more mature sugar daddy type date, especially on first meeting. He is more inclined to suggest coffee or dinner in a crowded
venue as a first meeting place, or be quite happy for her to suggest a
locale where she would feel comfortable. Her ease-of-mind, during that
first date in particular, will be high on his agenda.
2) Although there are exceptions to every rule, women
dating the older sugar daddy types notice the higher level of respect
shown to them during such relationships. The emphasis on romance
overshadowing his desire to get her into bed is often more apparent. He
is less likely to be interested in a superficial encounter.
3) The prospects of a long term relationship are
usually very real, his playing around days are obliterated in the past.
His mature mindset now focused on the many other aspects and indeed the
benefits of being in an adoring long term union.
4) The 'sugar daddy meets sugar baby' relationship is
often centered around the male's need to protect and show support
towards his younger partner. Many misconstrued this notion as a 'sex for favors' arrangement. Yet in his mind, sex is far from being a
pre-requisite. His pride would be severely dented if he thought for a
moment that the sexual encounters were brought about as a direct result
of his demonstrations of kindness.
5) Loyalty too will be of great importance. His
desire to protect and support will be extremely focused, and once he
discovers his belle, his eye is less likely to be turned in other
directions. The strength of the relationship is an important issue and
he will defend that vigorously.
6) Baggage can often be a problem in any new
relationship. Whether it is family responsibilities, ex partners or even
financial issues, baggage from the past can often deflower an otherwise
perfect opportunity. The older, more mature male is less likely to
allow external issues to spoil the possibilities and will often take his
partner's external responsibilities on board with grace, understanding
and a positive attitude.
7) Sexually, although not quite the opportunist he
used to be, his need to delight and satisfy will oftentimes be stronger
than seeking his own satisfaction. He will take time to seduce her mind;
his idea of foreplay has evolved way beyond 'fumble on the couch'
status. The aftermath of those intimate encounters too will be loving
and warm, with pillow talk becoming a tender part of the process.
8) Romance is an important aspect of any dating
relationship, but a sugar daddy will pay much more attention to the
romantic suggestion. This is not simply manifested with flowers, gifts
and material things, but the hand holding, public shows of affection or
little notes left discreetly for her to find.
9) On the maturity front, it is accepted that a
female is far more mature than a male at any given age. Therefore it
makes sense that she would have more in common with an older guy than
one her own age. They will hold each others attention for longer
periods, they will have more interests to share and they will be much
closer as friends within the overall plan.
10) The genuine sugar daddy will enjoy spoiling and
pampering his young lover and take every opportunity available to make
her feel like a princess. Not necessarily by way of showering her with
material things, but generally taking care of her needs. Making her feel
that she is important to him, loved. cherished. protected.
The 1920's version of the sugar daddy would typically
shower his young lover with gifts and often cash, as a 'reward' for her
company or sexual favors. These days the arrangement is centered around
a relationship, a solid bond between two willing partners. The
spoiling, pampering and protection satisfying both his need to give, and
her need to receive. This twenty-first century sugar daddy sugar baby
arrangement can often develop into a powerful union of mind body and
soul, leaving the conventional relationship in the dust.